Most people do this at the footwell behind driver.
Yes the black blue wire is the original feed so you will now use that as your trigger.
Offside rear yes
There is a multi plug there.
There is a how to on Mlr I'm sure
Had a search but there all basics of what to do. I wanted pics of actual locations they fitted it. Instructions just said white plug, basically lol
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